He Said, She Said Baby Shower Game Questions & Free Template

Need game ideas for your baby shower? “He Said, She Said” is low budget, great game to play! If you are searching for a fun activity that is fairly easy to plan and prepare for, this it it. All you need is access to a printer, a list of questions, and of course, mom and dad!

“He Said, She Said”: Game Rules & How to Play

If you’re anything like me, planning games can be overwhelming and a bit confusing. Luckily for you, “He Said, She Said” mommy and daddy baby shower game is a super simple activity. It’s a wonderful way to have some fun at the party! Your baby shower guests will love this game and everyone will have some good laughs. 

  • First up, gather your questions to be asked to mom and dad. These can be as many or as little as you want, I recommend about 10-15 questions for about a 20 minute game(See further down for question ideas). Type them up using Google Docs or Microsoft Word as you’ll be emailing or texting them the questions. 
  • Send mom and dad the series of questions, and ask them to write down their answers. Alternatively, ask them to record themselves individually answering the questions on their phone. Make sure they re-state the question before answering or include some type of context. Example: Who correctly guessed the gender of the baby? Parent answers, “I knew the gender of the baby right from the start.”
  • Take the written down answers and compile them into the game sheet. You may have to reword the answer for it to make sense in the context of the answer, and that’s okay! Include a “He” and “She” line or “Mom” and “Dad” line next to each question, so that guests can just circle or tick off whether they think “He” said it or “She” did (Scroll down for a visual example). Make enough copies for your baby shower party guests. 
  • Gather everyone together and hand out the sheets. Don’t forget to tell guests to write their names on the top! 
  • Read the question out loud, and wait for everyone to circle whether “He said” or “She said” after each question. When guests are done writing their answer, play the video recording of mom and dad giving their answer. Ideally, you’d have edited the video so that each answer is repeated first by mom, then dad. Guests will have a blast watching the video and seeing who actually said what. 
  • Alternatively, if you don’t have a video recording, simply state who said what (ex., “She said it!). 
  • The aim of the game is to correctly guess as many “He Said, She Said” questions as possible. Have guests count how many they got right, and hand out a prize to whomever has the most correct answers! There might be a tie, and that’s OK. Just keep extra prizes on hand. 

He Said, She Said Free Downloadable Template

he said she said answers template

To make things easier for you, I created this printer-friendly black & white “He Said, She Said” template. It includes 15 statements from the answers that mom and dad possibly would give. Switch out answers depending on the responses that your couple gave. 

Click here for the download. 

Example Run-Through of the Game

Still a little lost? Here’s an example run-through of “He Said, She Said” mom and dad baby shower game to clear things up!

Video Version:

  1. Host asks the first question: She reads off the quiz sheet and says, “Who said, ‘I am better at changing diapers’?”
  2. Guests guess the answer:  They circle or mark “mom” or “dad”.  
  3. Video plays and correct answer is revealed: The audience watches the video to get mom’s answer, then dad’s answer to the question. 
  4. Count correct guesses: Have guests count how many they got right on their game sheet; whoever has the most correct answers wins! 

Paper Version:

  1. Host asks the first question: “Who said, ‘I am better at changing diapers’?”
  2. Guests guess the answer:  They circle or mark “mom” or “dad”.  
  3. Correct answer is revealed: Host repeats the question, then states, “She said it!” or “He said it!”  
  4. Count correct guesses: Have guests count how many they got right on their game sheet. 

30 “He Said, She Said” Questions Ideas

Here’s a list of ideas to put on your game card. If you have the time, I recommend adding in more personalized questions, depending on the couple. It will be a fun way to connect with mom and dad and the guests. 

  1. Who will be stricter with the baby? 
  2. Who will be the first to wake up in the middle of the night? 
  3. Who is better at changing diapers? 
  4. Who is more likely to sing nursery rhymes to the baby? 
  5. Who will be better at calming the baby down when they cry? 
  6. Who chose the baby’s first outfit? Who will be more nervous on the way to the hospital? 
  7. Who thinks they will spoil the baby more? Who will be better at telling bedtime stories? 
  8. Who has read more books about parenting? Who is more likely to panic if the baby gets sick? 
  9. Who will give in when the baby asks for something they shouldn’t have? 
  10. Who is more excited about baby photoshoots? 
  11. Who talks to the baby bump more? 
  12. Who is most likely to plan the baby’s future hobbies (e.g., art, basketball)? 
  13. Who first suggested having a baby? Who picked out the baby’s name? 
  14. Who thinks they will change more diapers? 
  15. Who is more nervous about becoming a parent? 
  16. Who do you think the baby will look like? Who is most excited about the baby’s first word? 
  17. Who will be the more overprotective parent? Who has already bought baby clothes? 
  18. Who has already started baby-proofing the house? Who is more likely to be the “fun” parent? 
  19. Who thinks the baby will sleep through the night earlier? Who is planning the baby’s first birthday party already? 
  20. Who thinks they’ll cry at the baby’s birth? 
  21. Who correctly guessed the gender of the baby? 
  22. Who is more likely to take a million baby photos every day?

“He Said, She Said” is the perfect low cost, fun game that will be perfect for your next baby shower! This popular game just requires paper and access to a printer, which you can easily print from your home printer or even a local print shop or online print shop if you don’t have one. This game is perfect for a girl baby shower or a boy baby shower, co-ed baby showers, or any baby shower party with large groups of people. 

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